Compare it to your actual situation, not an ideal one
It's tempting to compare an offer against a perfect hypothetical job that doesn't exist. Compare it instead to your actual current situation, honestly — what you'd be trading, what you'd be gaining, and whether the net change genuinely moves you forward, or just moves you sideways with a nicer title attached.
Look past the number at what the role actually is
Salary is the easiest thing to compare and often the least reliable predictor of whether you'll be glad you took the job in a year. Ask what you'd actually be doing day to day, who you'd report to, what the team's reputation is. A bigger number attached to a worse fit rarely stays satisfying past the first few paychecks.
Notice what you'd be walking away from
Even an appealing offer has a real cost if it means leaving good relationships, momentum you've built, or flexibility you currently have and would lose. Weigh that loss honestly instead of only looking at what the new role adds — a genuinely better move accounts for both sides, not just the exciting one.
A short deadline is a negotiation tactic, not a real constraint
If you feel rushed into deciding, ask for more time before assuming you can't have it — most reasonable offers survive a few more days of real consideration. A decision this size deserves more than urgency-driven pattern-matching. If the offer disappears the moment you ask for a little more time, that itself is useful information.
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